Find YOUR Activity that Lights You Up – Mine is Spinning!

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In today’s episode of #fitnessonFriday I am going to share with you a new workout obsession of mine – spin classes.  You’ve heard me mention my love for spinning before, but today I’d like to dive deeper into why I have become so in-love with this type of exercise and what to look for in a spin class if you take my advice to ‘give it a spin’.  Pun intended, friends!  Let’s go.

I get so jazzed and pumped up every time I even think of spin classes.  And, anyone who lends me their ear surely does get an ear full about why I am enthusiastic about this low-impact, yet heart-rate elevating form of exercise.  I rave about the instructors, who are all very individual in their types of workouts, the structure of each class, the energy they bring to the room, the music they play, the comments and jokes they share with us, the places they take us on our rides, the professional tips they provide – during each 45-minute session we are together.

It’s a wonderful thing when you get so excited about being able to move your body, get a great workout in and leave the session so on top-of-the world that you just can’t wait for the next session.  You simply want more, and I always leave feeling 100% better than when I started the spin class. 

So, I know a lot of what I am going to share with you is specific to MY spin classes and MY gym’s instructors.  However, this should give you some idea of how spin classes should be and could be IF you find the right environment and motivating instructors. 

First and foremost, spin classes are not for hard core cyclists, as I had originally thought to be true.  You can find quite an age range of participants and varying levels of fitness among the spinners. 

When I became a bit interested in spin classes, I looked at the gym schedule and saw that a class was about to begin.  So, in stealth mode I tiptoed toward the spin room.  Just as I got close to the door, a man came out and asked me if I wanted to join the class.  I stuttered, and made all kinds of excuses why I couldn’t take part and explained I only wanted to watch a few minutes to see what it was all about. 

Well, before I could blink an eye,

 Bill, the spin instructor that day and a very enthusiastic cyclist himself, had me all set up on a bike, adjusted to my height, spinning and feeling still a bit apprehensive.  Suddenly, the lights went out and we began to spin.  Bill had assured me that I was free to leave whenever I wanted, but I ended up staying to the very end and from that moment on…I was hooked.

The wonderful thing about spin is ->  It is completely YOUR ride.  The instructors will guide you through the workout provided a range of RPMs and a suggested tension level, but ultimately YOU do YOU and what feels best for you and your body.  The person next to you is pushing themselves in a different way than you are.  The person in front of you is taking it a bit easier.  It is so individual and the instructors always emphasize “It’s YOUR ride. Adjust accordingly.”

Imagine doing a workout looking up at a screen all the while being taken to exotic, far-away places you’ve never visited before.  Doesn’t that sound a bit dreamy for a workout?  Well, this is exactly what happens…

The lights go off.  The huge screen in front of you lights up and we are off cycling the hilly countryside and winding roads of: the Italian wine country, quaint French villages, Hawaiian islands, tropical-looking Croatia with palm tree-lined streets, the picturesque state of Oregon, the vineyards of California, around Lake Tahoe, or the Scottish Highlands from castle to castle avoiding herds of sheep crossing the roads.

And the icing on the cake when you are in one of Bill’s spin classes…the dreaded climb at the end.  He takes the class (no one left behind) up mountains of Switzerland or France with anywhere from 10 – 16 switchbacks to navigate.  It is quite intense but the feeling once you reach the ‘virtual’ top is nothing short of incredible. 

It’s comparable to being in a movie theatre with the only difference that you are sweating profusely, and your heart is pumping like crazy, your legs (quads in particular) are burning depending on how high you increased the tension, but your self-confidence and pride are off the charts because you accomplished an exhilarating workout and you pushed yourself to endure. 

The burn I feel during spin class isn’t telling me to stop; it’s telling me it’s working.

Not only will such a workout elevate your self-esteem, but it will also do your heart a lot of good.  With the sprints that are baked into each workout, your heart rate is elevated to provide an outstanding cardio workout without being hard on your joints.  That is one of the main reasons, I am able to get in a tough cardiovascular session.  Running and power walking have not been options for several years now due to my mobility issues, so when I discovered the kind of workout you can achieve with spinning, I was thrilled.  Sometimes, I walk into class with pain here and there (whether that’s coming from my hips or lower back) BUT I always leave with NO pain.  I’m not making any medical claims here, but it works for me and if you are craving an excellent cardio workout but you have been sidelined from putting any burden or pressure on your lower limbs, be sure to look into and try a spinning class.  It truly has been life-changing for me.

Oh, did I mention you are going to sweat buckets?  Because you are.  If you push yourself even slightly, you will perspire AND burn a considerable number of calories.  Now, the instructors often say you can’t rely on the reading your spin bike gives you.  Your data is always in front of you:  your RPM, tension level, distance cycled, and calories burned.  In a normal one-hour session (that means I am in the spin room warming up about 15 minutes before the class starts), my watch and bike indicate that I burn around 500 calories. That’s what I call – a lot of bang for your buck.  I can only burn that same number of calories in a tough one-hour swim session.

But here’s the real deal… throughout the spin session, I am building up the muscles in my body, specifically my leg muscles – my calves, my quads, my hamstrings and my glutes — all get a thorough workout.

Overall, the toned look of my legs has changed from being flabby and full of cellulite to more of an athletic-looking leg.  My husband has commented not just once that my calves have slimmed down so much.  Personally, I notice it most on my quads.  They feel powerful, they appear more defined and toned, they support me 100% better than before I started spinning.

Let’s just pause here for one moment and talk about why it’s better to have muscles anyway.

One pound of muscle takes up far less space in your body than one pound of fat. Google it!  The images you find will surprise you. 

And, another fun fact about building more muscle… it burns more calories.  Put very simply, if you turn fat into muscle, your body will burn more calories.  So, my muscles that I gain from spin class and strength training are working for me literally for hours after each workout.  Spinning is like a gift to my body that keeps giving back.

One of the best things about spin class is the upbeat music the instructors play.  It really gets you moving and motivated.  For me, it’s all about the top hits of the 80’s. When those start playing, I feel unstoppable on the bike.  Karen, one of my favourite instructors, gets us all pumping hard to ACDCs “Highway to Hell” on our final climb – which is quite suitable in an ironic sense.  Jeff gets us jumping out of the saddle to Van Halen’s famous song “Jump”.

I really like the badass beats at class -> because, for me, music is like: my morning coffee, or mood medicine. A good song is pure magic.

Music has a way of picking you up and pushing you harder, and is definitely a key factor in any awesome workout.
 
Not only does the music make a difference, but the atmosphere is also a major factor.  Generally, the other participants are there to have a good workout and some fun too.  Bill will often team up the girls and the guys for a friendly gender competition.  Who can out cycle whom in 30 second sprints? 

When the other ladies and I meet in the changing room afterwards, we all agree that we push ourselves much more in a class environment as opposed to working out alone.  You tend to push yourself more because you are surrounded and see that others are pushing themselves to their limits as well.  It’s inspiring.

Spinning is the same as running or swimming or any cardio activity you might have tried… It is hard at the beginning; it’s tiring and you really have to push yourself to keep up the motivation to continue.  But then, after while your body reaches a point where everything actually gets easier.  After 20 minutes, your body warms up and you’ll be able to harness your full potential, which is higher than you initially thought. (Sidenote:  We always tend to underestimate our capabilities.)

The point I am trying to make here is that it activates reserves you didn’t think you had at the beginning of your workout.  Being able to get over that ‘hump’ is an amazing thing to achieve and it feels so darn good.

Pushing yourself to the limits creates a training effect.  It comes from increasing the limits a bit more, over and over again.  Without doing this, there is little to no progress.
Spin classes have offered me this benefit – me versus me – pushing the limits with each workout – making progress, gaining muscle, feeling proud, and so much more. 

I would highly recommend finding YOUR ACTIVITY – one that lights you up, fills you with excitement and anticipation, leaves you feeling full of adrenaline and that “I can take on the world now” attitude. 

It doesn’t have to be spinning, but I am sure you’ll have a similar experience as mine – IF you find the right class and instructors, who make every attempt to create an enjoyable, yet strenuous spin session.

When someone now asks me what I do for fun, I answer: “Uh, well, yeah – I ride stationary bikes, in dark rooms, with strangers to very loud music.”

And, that’s my message for today, friends.


Til next time,

Lisa xoxo 
 
 
 
 
 

Overcome the Challenges of Healthy Eating

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In today’s episode of the Inspiration2grow podcast I am going to take the complication out of health eating. 
 
Eating healthy is a challenging task for many. People may have good intentions at the beginning of their week, the beginning of their day, or 30 minutes before eating and then fail when choosing their meal. This failure often leads to a downward spiral of negative self-talk and binge eating for some. But you’ve already messed up; why not finish chalk the day up as a loss, right?
 
How we eat is impacted by upbringing, self-beliefs, hormones, social pressure, stress, emotions, and so much more. For something necessary for our survival, it can be a challenging task for many. So here are some ways to stay motivated when it comes to healthy eating.
 
-> Keep a journal, and track EVERYTHING! We all find ourselves eating for reasons other than hunger. You’d be surprised what you can mindlessly consume in a day, so track everything and add what you felt at that time. Food and feelings often go hand in hand.
 
-> Plan and Prepare. I’ve touched on the importance of planning your meals and preparing them so you can grab and go. I know this seems daunting, but it is a game-changer when changing your habits and living healthier.
 
-> Clean out your cupboards! It’s a lot harder to make poor choices when you have to make an effort to fulfill them. Not having easy access to unhealthier options leaves you with two possibilities, eat what’s in your cupboards or fridge (healthy choices) or go out of your way to pursue unhealthier.
 
-> Make small goals. This is one that I like to focus on with my clients. People who want to start transitioning into a healthier lifestyle often come in with big goals. But, unfortunately, when results aren’t happening immediately, they become discouraged and frustrated and revert to old habits. So it’s essential to be realistic with your goals. Choose possible things, like increasing your daily water intake by 2 cups or eating two servings of veggies daily.
 
-> Know that failure is inevitable. This is a big one. No one is perfect, and we will inevitably fail or make decisions that don’t align with our goals. It’s part of being human. Failure does not, or should not, equate to a “fuck it” mentality. If you make a choice that doesn’t align, then accept that and move on. Learning to eat healthily and leading a healthy lifestyle is a challenging task. It takes time, commitment, and allowing yourself a lot of grace.
 
-> Don’t restrict yourself. Yup, you read that right! If you want a piece of cake, then have the piece of cake, BUT do so in moderation. Once we start viewing foods as bad or with an, I can’t have that mentality; we tend to focus on these items more, especially at the beginning of our journey. So allow yourself to enjoy whatever you are craving (a bite or a piece, NOT a whole cake), don’t carry guilt around it, and then move on. Unhealthier food in moderation is ok; when we eat those items daily and in excess, we run into a problem.
 
All in all, eating healthy helps us fuel our minds and bodies. It also helps us feel good, and ultimately isn’t that what we all want? Try incorporating some of the above suggestions and start your journey towards eating healthy and feeling good!
 
That’s my message for today.

I would also like to invite you to become part of the Inspiration2grow community on Facebook.  The group name is: Inspiration2grow for Female Goal-getters.  It is meant to be a community of like-minded women who want to grow strong from the inside out.  There will be daily journalling prompts, nutrition and fitness tips, exercises to try, encouraging conversations among the community and lots more.  So, be sure to join this group for support, new ideas and the necessary rocket fuel to propel your health and wellness to new heights.

You owe it to yourself to take care of yourself, show up for yourself and become the best version of YOU.
In case you haven’t heard it yet today, let me be the first to tell you…

You are incredible, capable and your potential is limitless.  Never forget that I believe in you 100%.  Now, go out there and show the world what you are truly made of.
I hope to have inspired you to grow.

Til next time,
Lisa  xoxo
 
 

Raw & Real Talk with Samantha Fox Olson – Let Your SOUL Goals Guide You

LISTEN TO PODCAST EPISODE 72 HERE ->https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/VTX5wLoDfxb

Raw & Real Talk with Guest – Samantha Fox Olson, a supporter of women on their weight loss journey and fitness professional for over 32 years.  She is the founder of: FitGoddessBody.com and iLoveYogaandFitness.com specifically for females who want to embody the vibrant energy within themselves.

In today’s episode Lisa and Samantha talked about the importance of building muscle, soul goals, dance moves that can get you motivated, overcoming feelings of self-judgement and much more.  This show is absolutely loaded with inspiration, soulful moments, heartfelt messages to women who sometimes doubt themselves.  

Notable Quotes from today:
“Let dance and music make you feel playful and youthful.” ~Samantha Fox Olson
“When we feel nurtured and taken care of (by ourselves), we can take our power back and pour from a fuller cup.” ~Samantha
“We must listen to what lights us up and turns us on.” ~Samantha

Top 3 Golden Nuggets:
1. Ask yourself: Will this action help me get out of my head and into my heart?
2. Break out a dance moment of movement and flow to feel: sassy, sexy, sensual and silly.
3. Your body is a gift full of potential.

Connect with Samantha:
Join her FREE Facebook group -> Body Freedom Evolution 
Website: fitgoddessbody.com 
All Samantha’s offers are available for viewing and booking on her website including her August retreat in Michigan and her 12-Week Transformation Courses 


If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to leave a review and subscribe for regular updates on how to transform your thoughts and habits to support your goals, tap into the superpower of mindset and become the best version of yourself.

If you’d like to work with me on your personal growth strategies, mastering your mindset and building unwavering confidence to crush your goals, contact: lisaoberbichlercoaching@gmail.com
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Having YOU as a listener and fellow goal getter lights me up more than you can imagine!

Is Stress Running Your Life? 3 Ways to Change That

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In today’s episode of the Inspiration2grow podcast I am discussing STRESS with a capital S.  I just touched oh so briefly on this topic last week and I received so much feedback about the levels of stress YOU are experiencing.  So, let’s dive straight into today’s show and let me ask you this important question.  Take some time to really reflect on it…

Is Stress Running Your Life?
 
What if you could stop stressing about every little thing and feel calm and confident instead?  How would that feel?  How different would your daily energy be then?
 
While stress is an inevitable part of life – it doesn’t have to run our lives. Far too many of us work ourselves to the point of burnout where every challenge can start to literally feel like a life-or-death situation to our bodies and send us into fight or flight mode.
 
Burnout is NOT an inevitable part of success, and it is preventable!
 
The truth is that the STRESS you feel around chasing that next level of success and achievement is what’s preventing you from having breakthroughs in your MIND and BODY.
 
Stress can have you feeling exhausted, irritable, and anxious and cause health problems like headaches, premature aging, digestive issues, muscle tension, and high blood pressure. Not fun to say the least! And when you’re not feeling your best it’s hard to stay clear-headed and calm while working.
 
Can you make life less stressful – is it even possible?
 
I absolutely believe it’s possible to make life and work less stressful! While we will never entirely eliminate stress from our lives, we don’t have to suffer so much.
 
Living a healthier, less-stressed life is priceless.
 
 
After struggling with chronic stress my entire life, I finally found relief and it started with these 3 things…

The #1 Mindset Shift to Reduce Goal Stress
The Missing Piece the Changed My Life
The Way to Use 2% of Your Day to Reduce Stress by 60% (or more!)
 
Let’s break these down, one at a time, starting with the mindset shift….
 
1.     Focus on Effort Over Outcome
 
Chronically stressed high-achievers tend to obsess over hitting goals. We literally plan our months around goals and the outcomes we want to achieve!
 
The ironic thing is that outcomes are out of our control – we can never really guarantee an end result. We can’t make people buy our stuff. We can’t make someone like us. We can’t control the unpredictable curve balls life throws at us.
 
The only thing we can control is our effort. In many ways that is freeing to realize! It allows us to stop obsessing over something we have no control over and shift our focus to something more productive – our actions. And when we take consistent, strategic action toward our goals, very often things turn out in our favour. Even if they don’t, we can go to bed at night knowing we did everything we could to reach our goals and if we don’t give up, eventually we’ll get there.
 
This leads me to another tip – which is to stop and challenge your thinking when you’re feeling anxious. When things don’t seem to be going your way and you start to catastrophize, stop yourself and challenge your thinking. Are you focusing on an outcome you can’t control? Are things really that bad or are you being way too hard on yourself? Would you talk to a friend the way you’re talking to yourself?
 
Sometimes, rather than taking a moment to challenge our thoughts and then shift into problem-solving mode, we just let ourselves spiral over what-ifs. This is never helpful and where we can get derailed. This isn’t about using positive thinking to ignore your problems, but rather using critical thinking to focus on real problems and solutions instead of letting anxiety take the wheel.
 
And what if things really aren’t going as well as you want, despite your best efforts? That’s where gratitude comes in. No matter how bad a day might be, there’s always some good to be found in it. Years ago, I started a dinner routine to help make gratitude a daily practice. You could do this with your partner and family as well. 
 
I called it “3 great things” and my husband and I would have to name three good things that happened that day. I admit there have been days that, when left to my own devices, I wouldn’t have found time for gratitude.
Making gratitude a family affair or a regular evening occurrence, part of the routine, keeps me accountable and makes me dig deep to find the good in the day even on the toughest of days.
 
If you want to reframe it, you could also reflect on the highlight(s) of your day.  No matter, how you look at it – through the lense of gratitude OR an absolute top moment of your day, I highly recommend this daily practice.  It helps you see the awesome parts of your day.
 
2.     The Missing Piece: Nervous System Regulation!
 
While I 100% believe that a rock-solid mindset is a key part of building a successful life and career (it was tip #1 after all!)
 
I DON’T believe that MINDSET is the #1 factor – despite what most coaches have been telling us for years now!
 
I believe that nervous system regulation is the key to reducing stress and overwhelm – not to mention stopping panic attacks, creating happier relationships, and feeling healthier and more energized.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve struggled with stress. I was even hospitalized at the age of 18 due to severe and very serious headaches.  At first, the specialists thought it to be a tumor, so many tests were done.  Thankfully, it wasn’t anything of that nature.  Yet, I remember the doctor sitting on my bedside telling my what I was actually suffering from – stress headaches. What he recommended I do, must have sounded good to him.  However, I knew it wouldn’t work for me.
 
Until I learned this…
 
What it boils down to is the fact that stress and anxiety begin as a nervous system response. It’s our body trying to keep us safe by sending us into fight or flight mode. The problem is that after a lifetime of being told that stress is dangerous and should be avoided at all costs – but not being able to avoid stress, because, well, life…we’re stressed about our stress! Now our bodies are like overly sensitive alarms that go off from a strong gust of wind and not just for a real threat.
 
Learning that stress isn’t necessarily the enemy – it’s my body trying to keep me safe – took away a lot of shame for me around my situation. Before, I thought I just needed to be ‘tougher’ and have a stronger mindset and didn’t know why I couldn’t just think my way out of my stress.
 
Learning how to calm my nervous system so that things like mindset work had a fighting chance of actually helping me changed my life.
 
You see, stress and anxiety live in the body first, so we have to begin with a body-based approach to anxiety. Once we’re in a more regulated state THEN we can address the root cause and start to heal on a mental and emotional level.
 
While there will always be stressors in our lives, we can learn how to bounce back faster when we hit roadblocks and not let stress and anxiety take us out of the game. It’s amazing to feel like I can cope with whatever comes my way now!
 
So if every little inconvenience derails your day or overwhelm has totally taken you out of the game before, I’d be willing to bet you were missing this critical piece of the puzzle – nervous system regulation.
 
 
3.     Use 2% of Your Day to Make the other 98% Amazing
 
Which brings me to the final tip – creating a self-care plan that will ACTUALLY make a difference in defeating stress and overwhelm.
 
To be clear – what I am talking about when I say self-care is NOT bubble baths and face masks. I’m talking about a plan to get your mind right, your body right, and your priorities right and it’s an absolute GAME CHANGER. So don’t skip this!
Now, you might be thinking either – ”I don’t have time for that fluff, I’m busy!” OR “Of course, I’ll make time for self-care…Probably. If there’s time. Some day.”
(Knowing full well that self-care is always the FIRST thing to go when we’re the busiest and most stressed.)

You’ve noticed that, right? That you can keep up with your morning routine and your self-care habits when things are going well, but as soon as SHIT hits the fan you stop working out, doing your mindset work, and journaling, right?
Even when we KNOW it would make us feel better, we don’t do it! Why is that?

It’s one of those crazy things about being human – we might know intellectually what we need to do, but we can’t always seem to ‘make’ ourselves do it. We have so many competing priorities and, unfortunately, our health and wellness often take a backseat to business and family obligations. Unless we have some sort of health crisis, we can usually rationalize that it’s just not that important or urgent. Sad but true.
 
Two tricks I love to overcome this issue is habit stacking and finding your “why”. Habit stacking is simply attaching a new habit to something you already do every day.

For example, we eat dinner as a family every night, so adding ‘three great things’ to dinner made daily gratitude easy to remember.
Part of my morning routine is filling up my water cup when I make coffee. I’m certainly not going to forget to make coffee, so if my water cup is by the coffee pot I never forget that either and suddenly staying hydrated is 10x easier.

You’ve probably been told before to find your ‘why’ when it comes to your business, but most of us don’t go deep enough with the process. Then we come up with reasons that SOUND nice and all but they don’t actually light a fire under our bums and get us to do the thing already. That’s the key.

Here’s the good news – self-care doesn’t have to be time-consuming. In fact, I’ve put together a self-care routine that’s PERFECT for crazy-busy times and it can be done in 30 minutes (or less).
 
That’s just 2% of your day but it can reduce stress by 60% or more!
 
Now, are you ready to go from chaos to calm?  The three tips I just shared can be game-changers, if you implement them.  It’s all about putting strategies and tips in motion and actually trying them, not once but a few times to reap the benefits.
 
Let’s recap today’s 3 tips:
 
The #1 Mindset Shift to Reduce Goal Stress – FOCUS ON EFFORT OVER OUTCOME
The Missing Piece the Changed My Life – REGULATE YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM
The Way to Use 2% of Your Day to Reduce Stress by 60% -USE 2% OF YOUR DAY TO MAKE THE OTHER 98% AMAZING
 
We’ve heard it from several of the experts I’ve had on the show – stress can lead to serious health issues if it is not dealt with.  It also has a negative effect on so many other functions of our bodies, not just our minds. 

Friends, it’s time you took steps to decrease any negative stress you are experiencing and start thriving as opposed to merely surviving…somehow.
That’s my message for today.

I would also like to invite you to become part of the Inspiration2grow community on Facebook.  The group name is: Inspiration2grow for Female Goal-getters.  It is meant to be a community of like-minded women who want to grow strong from the inside out.  There will be daily journalling prompts, nutrition and fitness tips, exercises to try, encouraging conversations among the community and lots more.  So, be sure to join this group for support, new ideas and the necessary rocket fuel to propel your health and wellness to new heights.

You owe it to yourself to take care of yourself, show up for yourself and become the best version of YOU.
In case you haven’t heard it yet today, let me be the first to tell you…

You are incredible, capable and your potential is limitless.  Never forget that I believe in you 100%.  Now, go out there and show the world what you are truly made of.

I hope to have inspired you to grow.

Til next time,
Lisa  xoxo
 
 
 

Raw & Real Talk with Guest Amber Paquette – Setting and Honouring Boundaries

LISTEN TO PODCAST EPISODE 70 HERE ->

New episode of Raw & Real Talk with brilliant minds in the Health & Wellness Space – Today’s talk is with Amber Paquette, a two-time graduate, self-published author, blog owner and future psychotherapist.  Lisa and Amber go in depth about the purpose of boundaries, setting and honouring them and Amber shares an exercise anyone can do to explore areas they may need to implement healthy boundaries.  Amber also challenges listeners to consider this…what would happen if we had NO boundaries? 

Notable Quotes from today:
“Boundaries are like the rules & regulations of engaging with me.” ~Amber Paquette
“You have to name it to tame it.” ~ Amber P
“Healthy boundaries are the essential ingredient to a balanced lifestyle.” ~Amber P
Top 3 Golden Nuggets:
1. Boundaries are a form of self-care.
2. The purpose of boundaries: to serve, protect and honour your self-respect.
3. Women, in particular, need to set more boundaries to protect their energy.

Connect with Amber:
Website:  www.livewellwithamber.com
Find Amber’s blog and free resources on her website, including her self-published book “Growing Pains”
Instagram: @livewell_blog


If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to leave a review and subscribe for regular updates on how to transform your thoughts and habits to support your goals, tap into the superpower of mindset and become the best version of yourself.

If you’d like to work with me on your personal growth strategies, mastering your mindset and building unwavering confidence to crush your goals, contact: lisaoberbichlercoaching@gmail.com
Visit my website to read more on what I’m all about as a Personal Growth Strategist & Life Coach for Goal Getters www.inspiration2grow.com . Sign up for my weekly email to receive insider tips, freebies, news and more goodness that only my E-listers receive direct to their inbox each week.

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Thank you for your support of my podcast and business.
Having YOU as a listener and fellow goal getter lights me up more than you can imagine!

3Ways to Make Habits Stick

LISTEN TO PODCAST EPISODE 68 HERE -> https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/WR88Lghf7wb

In today’s short podcast episode of the Inspiration2grow show I am going to talk about 3 ways to turn a goal into a habit.  These are ways you probably haven’t even heard of before.

I am keeping today’s show very brief because we have had some very powerful, lengthy episodes this week, so this should serve as a quick pep talk for you going into the weekend.

The jury is out on this… how long does it really take to turn a goal into a healthy habit?  Some say 21 days, others claim it takes much longer.  The average seems to lie around the 66-day mark. 

That’s a considerable amount of time to form a lasting habit, isn’t it?  Likely the reason why so many don’t stick it out or give up on themselves.
But, today, I’d like to give you three fresh new ideas of how you can develop the grit and tenacity one needs to stick with it even when the going gets tough, on the days when you just don’t feel like it.

So, let’s dive in…

The first thing you need to do is…  SLEEP TO STAY STRONG.

If you’ve ever adopted a ‘to-heck-with-it’ mentality when you’re exhausted, here’s the reason why:  “Research shows that when we’re sleep-deprived or have low blood sugar, our willpower goes down.”

Try to snooze for at least seven hours a night and have a healthy nibble every few hours during the day.

And a bit more on how sleep affects our wellness…

We have to view a ‘good night’s sleep’ as important as regular exercise and healthy eating.

Research shows that poor sleep has immediate negative effects on our hormones, exercise performance as well as brain function.
We might not notice exactly how this affects our hormones, but we certainly do feel depleted of energy if we don’t get a solid sleep at night.  You know how this feels… everything you do feels like so much work and effort, your thoughts might be fuzzy or it may be difficult to concentrate. 

Not getting adequate amounts of sound sleep can also cause weight gain and increase disease risk in both adults and children.

On the flip side of the coin, a good night of slumber can help you eat less, exercise better and feel healthier overall.

We’ve all experienced poor sleep at some point, but statistics show that over the past few decades both sleep quality and quantity have declined.  It is reaching dangerous levels for some.  This is why I am talking more and more about it.  Episode 65 this week was about improving your sleep and provided 5 ways you could go about that.

So, by now you get my point, right?  Good quality sleep and the right amounts are crucial for your health and wellbeing but also to keep you strong in order to make better decisions throughout the day regarding the foods you eat, the actions you take, the exercise you get, and so on.

If you truly want to optimize your health, get fit and lose a bit of excess weight, then ensuring you get a good night’s sleep is one of the most important things you can and need to do.
 
Secondly, BET ON YOURSELF.

To stay on track, put something you value on the line.  People who promised to forfeit money if they failed to lose weight shed 14 pounds more than those who didn’t have anything at stake.

Get some skin in the game!

Who could you make a friendly wager with? Someone in your family or a close friend?  Maybe even someone at your local gym that has the same goals as you do.
Betting on yourself could also take the form of investing in yourself.  By hiring a personal trainer, nutrition coach, any professional who could help you with your goals could be considered a ‘vote of confidence’ for yourself and you will definitely put in the necessary effort to reach your goals.

Now a bit of tough love talk…

You deserve to bet on yourself, but no one can make you do it.  Either you’re interested in being the master of your own fate or you’re content living life on the sidelines, waiting for someone to decide when you get to play and when you have to ride the bench.  Perfect sports team analogy here!

Come to terms with the fact that no one is coming to save you.

Betting on yourself is the fastest way to success.  Waiting for the world to give you permission to be great and go after your goals and dreams is the slowest way to mediocrity.  And, we weren’t put on this earth to be just average, simple mediocre, right?  Are you with me on this? 

Because this podcast is NOT about just getting by.  It is about soaring like an eagle, striving to reach new, exciting heights, pushing yourself outside your comfort zone time and time again until it feels easier. It’s about discovering how much potential we have and it’s about finally going after what you want in life. 

Your mindset changes when you start to bet on yourself. 
 
Lastly,  LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE.

Instead of thinking about what you’re giving up, reframe your mindset so that you focus on the benefits.  For instance, getting to the gym before work will free up the night to have fun with friends.  Packing lunch instead of grabbing lunch at a restaurant will help you save money to afford a tropical vacation. 

“Focusing on what you can gain from your efforts energizes you to keep going.”

For me personally, the time I put in at the gym and at spin classes gives me energy, a more toned body, better stability and mobility as well as additional strength to function in my every day life better. 

Is it always easy to put on my shoes and arrive at the gym?  Heck no.  But I feel so much better after each workout and that’s the feeling that keeps me going back.

In order to constantly look on the bright side, you have to become a true optimist, who by definition, is a person that always sees the bright side of any situation.  They always put a positive spin on things. They don’t allow negative thoughts toward something or someone drag them down.  They are able to always find an uplifting thought that encourages, motivates and keeps them positive in a situation. 

For example,
“OMG, today is leg day at the gym.  This is going to be so gruelling and tough.  I’m going to hurt so much.”  -> “Yeah, I get to move and challenge my leg muscles today.  I will listen to my body and feel into the workout to get the most out of it.”

You might find this exhausting and somewhat annoying – being overly positive in all situations.  It is not always the easiest thing to do, I hear ya.

But…believe it or not, there are health benefits to looking on the bright side.

Not only does this outlook benefit you mentally, it can also improve your physical health as well. Research indicates that in the long run, being more optimistic can lead to greater personal success, great longevity and lower levels of stress.

That’s today message, friends.

Let me re-cap… in order to stick with your habits even more, I talked about three things you can do:  stay strong by getting enough sleep, bet on yourself, and look on the bright side.  I also mentioned the overall health benefits of each. 

If you’d like to go over today’s show, go to the show notes on my website: inspiration2grow.com.  I know (that) I talk fast at times and it’s a lot to digest, so every day each podcast episode is available for reading.  Be sure to leave me a comment and let me know your thoughts.  I’d love to know what has resonated with you.

My only hope is that you start to implement some of the ideas, tips and strategies that I talk about and I would love to know which ones have been beneficial for you personally.

I would also like to invite you to become part of the Inspiration2grow community on Facebook.  The group name is: Inspiration2grow for Female Goal-getters.  It is meant to be a community of like-minded women who want to grow strong from the inside out.  There will be daily journalling prompts, nutrition and fitness tips, exercises to try, encouraging conversations among the community and lots more.  So, be sure to join this group for support, new ideas and the necessary rocket fuel to propel your health and wellness to new heights.

You owe it to yourself to take care of yourself, show up for yourself and become the best version of YOU.

In case you haven’t heard it yet today, let me be the first to tell you…

You are incredible, capable and your potential is limitless.  Never forget that I believe in you 100%.  Now, go out there and show the world what you are truly made of.

I hope to have inspired you to grow.

Til next time,    
Lisa  xoxo

The True Foundations of Wellness – Interview with Traci Moor

LISTEN TO PODCAST EPISODE 67 HERE -> https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/C197lGeH5wb

Connect with today’s podcast guest, Traci Moor, here:

Website: www.suddenimpactnutrition.com
Facebook: Sudden Impact Nutrition
Instagram: @suddenimpactnutrition
Twitter: @moornutrition
Book a FREE 30-minute consultation!
Traci also provided here phone number: 519-729-1965

Ditch Your Self-Doubt

LISTEN TO PODCAST EPISODE 66 HERE ->https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/Z6BIFt1h4wb

In today’s episode of the Inspiration2grow podcast we are going to get rid of the self-doubt that may be lingering within us.  Together we are going to upgrade your mental game to ditch any and all self-doubt like an elite athlete.  We are going to face our internal obstacles and use their powerful habits to unlock infinite progress.

You might be saying, “Can I call myself an athlete, really?”

Here’s the thing…we often think that we have to become some kind of expert in a certain sport or receive some kind of athletic award to be considered an ‘athlete’ but this just isn’t true.  It’s your choice and your choice alone, to see yourself as an athlete – no one else’s opinion matters. 

I recently read an article that was talking about athletes, and they said, ‘anyone who participates in regular physical activity to become fitter, stronger and better in the sportive activity is considered an athlete.  And, I’m sure that describes you, right?

Have you ever wondered what separates elite athletes from the rest of us?  All of the ones competing on the highest level are skilled and talented, but what sets the GOATS apart from the rest of the pack is their mindset. (GOAT – stands for Greatest Of All Times)

To be honest with you, I geek out studying the mindset of great athletes because I think we can all learn from them. 

Elite athletes have what we can all a “next level” mindset.  They are constantly looking for ways of challenging themselves – on a daily basis – in order to reach the next level.  They stop obsessing over being talented or not, and instead, they place their focus on improving their skills.   I highly recommend listening to this episode if you haven’t already.

Everyone who has studied the best of the best in sports will agree that mindset is the X-factor which they all possess. It’s not speed, endurance, strength or even genetics -> it’s the mind.

So how do gold medalists, world champions, hall-of-famers and record holders take control of their own progress and level up their performance? It’s all in their mental habits and behaviours.

·         Greatness is largely mental – and anyone, even you or me, can move closer to this level of greatness by implementing the tools that have made athletes into legends.
·         Visualisation and self-talk can help you get rid of doubt and channel your mindset to that of a champion mindset.
·         Grit is one key ingredient we can’t do without and it part of the ‘secret sauce’. Building more of it will help you achieve your goals.

Let’s dive into some mindset hacks that everyday athletes like you and I can use, but are taken from the playbook of the elite sportsmen and women of the world:

1.       Talk to yourself.
Don’t merely listen to the voices in your head; you have to talk to them.  We call this ‘self-talk’.  When we are confronted with challenging situations practicing self-talk can provide us with the focus and confidence to perform at our best.  But here’s the hitch -> you have to do it as if you were talking to your best friend.  Think for a moment how supportive you can be when a close friend is having a tough-to-navigate moment.  You would likely say things like, “You’ve got this!” or “Take a deep breath.”

Remember to be as kind and uplifting to yourself as you would to someone you care about.

2.       Visualize it.
By this I mean -> see it and be it!  Many top-notch athletes mentally experience every single movement and action leading up to their competition, sometimes even to the medal podium. I have talked about this before…how downhill skier, Lindsay Vonn, would close her eyes and visualize the ski race she was about to start – one gate after the other – right down to crossing the finish line.

Visualization is all about vividly imagining a positive action or outcome in great detail.  In turn, this primes your mind for the actual experience and improves your confidence when you are actually going through the motions.

So, in a practical sense, imagine all the scenarios you’re apprehensive about.  Using this technique of visualization will help you craft a mental plan of how to overcome obstacles should they arise. We can apply this practice to life-changing moments, like for instance nailing a job interview for your dream job or completing your first ever triathlon even thought you are not a strong swimmer, or everyday tasks like your next workout.

3.       Find your purpose.
You likely don’t realize this but you have, we all have, a seemingly bottomless pit of motivation and potential which you can tap into at any given time – provided you have identified your “WHY”.  This is a core purpose, one that lights a fire under you every time you take on a challenge.

For elite athletes, the ‘why’ can be both personal and emotional.  For example, LeBron James and Serena Williams, say their purpose is to inspire children who look like them and come from where they originated from to achieve greatness. 

You can start to pinpoint your purpose any time by identifying what fulfills you and what would make you proud.

If you’re still left uncertain, try focusing on the needs of others to keep you motivated and accountable.  Oftentimes this will give you an extra push and inspire you to work a little harder than you otherwise would.

4.       Be full of grit.
What is grit?  It is the combination of passion and persistence that helps someone reach their long-term goals. This easiest way to evaluate your level of grit is to take a good, hard look at your follow-through. Do you finish the tasks you start?  Do you remember what the task was in the first place? Here’s a test for you, just in case you’re not sure if you have this so-called ‘grit’… set a small goal that takes you only a few days to accomplish.  For example, eat a meat-free meal three days a week instead of going full vegan.  Or, commit to 5 minutes of strength training for three days a week instead of going full out with 20 – 30 minutes 5 times a week.  SET A SMALL GOAL and stick with it. 

If you accomplish that small goal, try it again and again.  Maybe adding another day or another session, then another until the weeks turn into months and maybe even years.

Regularly achieving small goals can improve your grit, which in turn can make achieving your bigger goals more of a reality.

5.       Become completely obsessed with the process.
Elite athletes often rely on very regimented daily routines to keep their tasks lined up and their goals in sight.  For you and me, creating an effective ‘process’ could be as simple as keeping a rigorous planner.  Take a good look at your routine and ask yourself: Does my schedule have consistent tasks taking place regularly that I can find reward in them? Does my schedule include repetitive tasks that are exactly the same, so you can learn automatically from them? Does my schedule include an action plan consisting of short-term tasks that build or ladder up to long-term goals?  Does my schedule emphasize my ‘why’ as always being front and center, top of mind?  And lastly, are you implementing your schedule with tolerance, never punishing yourself for failures?

The last question is important to ensure we stick with our process for the long haul and ditching any self-doubt in ourselves and our efforts.

6.       Own it.
We have to take full and honest ownership or responsibility for our own progress, without excuses or blame on others. We have to realize that our performance in everything we do lies within our control.  Taking ownership demonstrates you are a genuine leader and this will benefit not only you and your efforts to reach the next level but also family and friends, who know they can count on you in critical moments and always.

Just remember that even the GOATS didn’t achieve greatness overnight.  We have to keep grinding.

And, that’s my message for today, friends.
 
My hope is that you start to implement some of the ideas, tips and strategies that I talk about and I would love to know which ones have been beneficial for you personally.

I would also like to invite you to become part of the Inspiration2grow community on Facebook.  The group name is: Inspiration2grow for Female Goal-getters.  It is meant to be a community of like-minded women who want to grow strong from the inside out.  There will be daily journalling prompts, nutrition and fitness tips, exercises to try, encouraging conversations among the community and lots more.  So, be sure to join this group for support, new ideas and the necessary rocket fuel to propel your health and wellness to new heights.

You owe it to yourself to take care of yourself, show up for yourself and become the best version of YOU.

In case you haven’t heard it yet today, let me be the first to tell you…

You are incredible, capable and your potential is limitless.  Never forget that I believe in you 100%.  Now, go out there and show the world what you are truly made of.

I hope to have inspired you to grow.

Til next time,
Lisa  xoxo
 
 
 
 

5 Ways to Improve Your Sleep Tonight

LISTEN TO EPISODE 65 OF THE PODCAST -> https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/KtaIvfiE2wb

In today’s episode of the Inspiration2grow podcast I am talking about the single most important, regenerative and restorative every body needs – adequate sleep.  If you don’t get the amount of sleep your body needs, you simply won’t be able to function and perform in your peak state.
 
Personally, I struggled to get a good night’s sleep for a number of years due to work stress.  Then the unbearable situation continued due to constant pain from my abdomen downwards.  The nights when I would be able to sleep for 3 – 4 hours straight through were few and far between.  And, for someone who thrives on at least 7 – 8 hours, didn’t set me up for a very pleasant day at work. 
 
Not only does a chronic lack of quality sleep made you irritable and feeling like you are dragging yourself around all day long, it doesn’t set you up for success in terms of exercising or getting in the necessary body movement, that would ultimately make you feel better.  
 
When your body is running on an empty tank (which is the feeling I constantly had with only getting a few very interrupted hours of sleep each night), you don’t make the best decisions for your health.  I mean in terms of food choices, exercise or even getting out in the fresh air to allow nature to rejuvenate you… at least a bit.  It plays havoc with your mindset.
 
Luckily, I was able to change my sleeping habits and re-gain my energy by using some of the strategies I am going to give you today.  But, by far, the most impactful action I took, which by the way wasn’t intended to improve my sleep but had that positive spin-off nonetheless, was exercising.  I have made other tweaks and changes to my sleep routine, all of which have helped, I’m sure. However, getting in a certain amount of physical activity was a complete game-changer for me.
 
One more thing I’d like to mention, sleep should never be underrated.  We heard from Dasha Agoulnik, the gut health expert, in episode 61 that your time of sleep is super important for your gut to relax and recuperate from the previous day.  It was mentioned as one of her 5 pillars to overall wellness.
 
Any magazine you pick up, any health bulletin you read, any health care professional you speak to – all will say that you should be getting enough sleep.  The exact number of hours each of us requires, still seems to be controversial.  But, you know how you feel after a good night of peaceful rest.  Ask yourself or start to keep track – how many hours provide you with the necessary energy and clear head to tackle your day.
 
So, let’s dive into today’s show and take a look at some tips on how you can get a better night’s sleep tonight.
 
Be honest with yourself…
Have you been struggling with sleep lately? Does a good night’s sleep feel impossible many nights?
 
It’s a fact …not getting enough sleep seems to be at the top of people’s list of energy-busters.

That stinks because missing ZZZs doesn’t just make you groggy. It messes with your overall well-being in a big way, too. So many restorative and regenerative processes happen when you sleep. Your body literally does repair work—including producing important proteins that fight inflammation. To help you unlock all that goodness, I want to share five tips to help you sleep better.

Tip #1: Follow the light.
Good sleep is all about working with your circadian rhythm, not against it. With that rhythm, cortisol rises early in the morning (giving you extra pep in your step). Then it begins to drop in the late afternoon as melatonin climbs, calming your system so you can get some shut-eye. Light is one of the biggest triggers for both of those hormonal shifts. Aim for bright light in the morning (ideally including 15+ minutes of direct sunlight shortly after waking), then dim light in the evening. It also helps to cut blue light exposure (like the kind from your TV or phone) an hour or two before bed. I leave my phone in the living room so I’m not tempted.

Tip #2: Set the stage.
Where you sleep is a big player in how you sleep, so take a few minutes today to upgrade your sleep environment. An optimal sleep space should be cool, quiet, dark, comfy and stress-free—so pick one of those five to improve today. If light or noise leaks interrupt your sleep, earplugs or a sleep mask can work wonders. If your bed’s uncomfy, maybe it’s time to invest in a cushy mattress topper. Simply pick one and start upgrading.

Tip #3: Watch what and when you drink.
Beverages can have a big impact on sleep quality. If you’ve been struggling with sleep, try limiting caffeine past noon and lowering your alcohol consumption. If you do drink, have your libation earlier in the evening, with water and food. Conversely, tart cherry juice can promote deep sleep, so consider adding a glass of that to your evening routine. (Mixed with some seltzer and a slice of lime, it’s one of my favorite mocktails!) Regardless, try limiting drinks in general past 8 p.m. so you don’t wake up to and have to make trips to the bathroom (pee) as much.

Tip #4: Tuck yourself in like a toddler.
If you had a feisty four-year-old who needed to be asleep by 8, what time would you start getting them ready for bed? Probably not at 7:59 by shutting off whatever screen they were watching and just plunking them down on the pillow. But that’s how so many adults put ourselves to bed!
It’s time to create a dreamy pre-bed routine instead—one that really sets you up for a good night’s sleep. Design a routine that covers all your basic hygiene (brushing teeth, skincare, etc.) plus some soothing elements to help you relax (like reading, journaling, or a calming meditation). Then do your bedtime routine every night, just like you were tucking in a toddler.

Tip #5: Schedule your wind down.
This is where the rubber meets the road and it’s the one step most people skip: schedule the start time for that bedtime routine. Really map it out. Back in from the time you want to be asleep, allow time for each of the activities in your bedtime ritual and plan accordingly. I’ve even started setting an alarm on my phone to alert me when it’s time to start getting ready for bed. Keep in mind that optimal repair and regeneration happens between 11pm to 1am, so do your best to hit that window and actually be asleep by 11, if you can.

You deserve to wake up rested, refreshed and ready for anything, my friend. I hope these tips help you get there.

Be sure to leave a comment over on FB or IG or even on my website’s show notes/blog page – let me know which one of these tips you’re going to try.

And, that’s my message for today, friends.

My hope is that you start to implement some of the ideas, tips and strategies that I talk about and I would love to know which ones have been beneficial for you personally.

I would also like to invite you to become part of the Inspiration2grow community on Facebook.  The group name is: Inspiration2grow for Female Goal-getters.  It is meant to be a community of like-minded women who want to grow strong from the inside out.  There will be daily journalling prompts, nutrition and fitness tips, exercises to try, encouraging conversations among the community and lots more.  So, be sure to join this group for support, new ideas and the necessary rocket fuel to propel your health and wellness to new heights.

You owe it to yourself to take care of yourself, show up for yourself and become the best version of YOU.

In case you haven’t heard it yet today, let me be the first to tell you…

You are incredible, capable and your potential is limitless.  Never forget that I believe in you 100%.  Now, go out there and show the world what you are truly made of.

I hope to have inspired you to grow.  

Til next time, 
Lisa xoxo

The Power of Purpose – Interview with JoAnne Dietrich Muegge (aka the On-Purpose Lady)

LISTEN TO PODCAST EPISODE 64 HERE -> https://anchor.fm/lisa4061/episodes/The-Power-of-Purpose—Interview-with-JoAnne-Dietrich-Muegge-e1u67dt

Book References and other resources made during the podcast:

“The On Purpose Person” written by Kevin McCarthy

“Power vs. Force” written by Dr. David R. Hawkins

website -> for the ‘quick tournament’ exercise/assignment JoAnne mentioned can be found -> OnPurpose.me

melissa_lyons.com (Nutritional Value of Thoughts, Feelings and Emotions for the Soul)

info@melissa_lyons.com

Guest Speaker -> JoAnne Dietrich Muegge (aka The On-Purpose Lady)

Photos from her personal Camino Challenge during Covid: