Are You Ready to Love Yourself?

In today’s episode of the Inspiration2Grow podcast I want to give you a reminder that you are loved, worthy and can your power back.
 
 
Have you ever wondered WHY some people can’t or won’t see your value?
 
Have you ever felt unseen or unheard in a relationship?
 
Or worried if you put your work out there other people won’t see your value either?
 
The pain and struggle in relationships happens as a reflection of the pain we avoid sitting with inside ourselves. 
 
We live in a reflectionary universe, which means the universe is your mirror. And one of the biggest illusions our minds play on us is that it tells us we are separate from everything else in the world.  That we are alone, that no one else is like us or could understand us. That there is something wrong with us. That we are not good enough.  BUT, none of these statements have much truth to them.  The truth is, you, me and everything out there in the universe are interconnected and acting together as one.
 
 
So the biggest most impactful work you can do is INSIDE with yourself and then watch that reflect outside for you. It’s not in the trying to coerce other people to love you or see your value. 
 
You are loved. Period. The end.
There’s nothing you have to do or prove or perform in order to be loved. You just are.
 
Your worth and inherent value has nothing to do with anyone outside of you validating or invalidating you.
The question is are YOU validating you?
 
Worthiness… it’s at the core wound of all the attachment work out there.
 
We look for it in other people to tell us we are worthy, ready, and deserving of ______ fill in the blank,… love, money, respect.
 
But that’s NOT how it works.
 
Time to take your power back now friends and discover how to LOVE yourself … it’s just a decision.
 
And you’re worth it.
You can continue giving your power away out there for someone to love you, or see you or value you. Or you can claim it and do the work yourself and then watch your reflections show up as this wholeness you seek outside yourself. 
 
I’m talking about this today in relation to your purpose because your purpose fulfilled will depend on your relationship with yourself.
 
Your confidence, your worth, how you FEEL about yourself and your work is all dependent on this.
 
That’s why I am always saying “bet on yourself, you are the lottery ticket”.
 
You can learn new skills, you can do hard things, and you can create transformation in any area of your life that YOU decide.
 
It all starts with a decision to take a radically honest look inside at the thoughts, stories, feelings being triggered, and then the willingness to take radical responsibility for what we find and finally have enough radical self love to do something different.
 
So, DSD – do something different.
 
I’m going to finish off today’s short episode with some wise words to live by:
 
·         Let it go – never ruin a good day by thinking about a bad yesterday.
·         Ignore them – don’t listen to other people, live a life that is empowering to you.
·         Give it time – time heals everything.  Remember that!
·         Don’t compare – the only person you should try to beat is the person you were yesterday.
·         Stay calm – it’s okay not to have everything figured out, just know that in time you’ll get there.
·         It’s on YOU – only YOU are in charge of your happiness and life
·         Smile – life is short! Enjoy it, embrace it and live it to the fullest while you have it.
·         Be kinder to yourself – give yourself grace in all situations.
·         Love yourself – start a love affair with yourself and begin to see what a wonderful, amazing person you really are. 

Once the internal shift happens, the rest of your world will notice too.

I truly hope to have inspired you to grow.

Til next time,

Lisa
xoxo